Hi all, I haven't met any of you yet either. Hopefully will get to party with everyone Labor Day weekend at least those of you that make it that weekend. As for the wedding think of it this way, if you go to the wedding you're going to be bummed thinking of all the fun you're missing at the bay wondering why you got all dressed up and went to a wedding you really didn't want to be at.
If you go to the bay after about an hour (or less) and a few jager bombs (my favourite) all guilt will be forgotten and you'll be having a great time.
Send a card. I'd be at the bay if I had a choice. Lori