Mobay Mobay Mobay...... Such a life altering decision to make. Here's my take. I don't think I buy into the bachelor party non-invitation deal. I've been omitted from plenty bachelor party (probably because my reputation has preceeded me somehow) but have been invited to the wedding. Maybe it's a So Cal/Lakes Region thing. Anyway, I agree with CabinGirl as far as RSVPing and just not showing up. No bueno. BUT, most reception places, as far as I know, have a deadline of two or three days before the actual event for the doomed couple to give a final count of guests attending. With that said, you have until tomorrow or Thursday to call your bud and tell him you have a spinal tap scheduled for Friday and have to cancel on the wedding. Second, I'm voting for you to skip the wedding and head out the to island. I'm planning on coming out there next month for the first time and I need to see your posts up here so I can know more of what I'm getting myself into, damnit! So buck up, pick up the horn, call non-friend with a regret, get your silly arse to the bay and report back!
No Longer a PIB Virgin